LOS ANGELES, CA - I went to the home of a young couple who had an
11-month-old
female golden retriever. Their complaint was that the dog
was
destructive - not
unusual for a dog her age and breed. We went over several
solutions, all
which
were doable and understood by the couple. Towards the end of
the
consult, the
man made the comment, "But she makes me so mad! She knows
it's wrong,
but she
still does it!"
I couldn't let a comment like that go. He was
misinterpreting his dog's
reactions and then getting frustrated over it. I explained
that "she
doesn't
know she's done something wrong; she simply has an
association with the
trash
being torn up with your anger." That explanation didn't make
sense to
him.
"That's the same thing. And,
yes, she DOES know that she has
done something wrong, and I can prove it to you. When I get home, if she
is at
the front door, wagging her tail and happy to greet me, I know
that
everything
is fine. If, when I get home, she is not at the front door, I can be
sure that
something is destroyed, usually the trash in the kitchen. That PROVES
that she
knows she's done something wrong! She even acts guilty!"
I tried
to explain again that she didn't really know she did
anything wrong, and that she merely had an association with his anger
when the
trash was destroyed, and that anticipation of punishment was not the
same thing
as guilt. I went on to explain
more of the behavior, but I obviously wasn't doing a good job of it.
Although
both he and his wife appreciated the solutions I gave them for the
destruction,
none of us were satisfied with my attempts to explain their dog's
reactions. I
kept talking, trying to put it in different ways, but was still unable
to
articulate what I knew was really occurring.
In cases like this
one, the explanation of her behavior
wasn't important to the solutions for the problem, but I felt it was
very
important for their understanding of their dog. I also know that, had I
been
successful, he would have been much less frustrated. But I finally had
to drop
it, feeling as frustrated over my inabilities in this instance as he was
over
his dog's destruction.
A few weeks later, the man called my
office and the first
words out of his mouth were, "Okay, you win!"
I was thrilled to
hear this! Not only do I love being right,
I hoped that how he came to understand what I was trying to explain
would help
me better illustrate this concept to others.
"A little while
ago, my wife and I were in the kitchen. Our
dog was with us and everything was fine. I bent over to take the trash
bag outside.
It broke open and the garbage fell onto the floor. My dog looked at the
garbage, looked up at me, tucked her tail and ran out of the kitchen!
Right
then, what you were trying to say came into my head; she hadn't 'known
she did
something wrong,' because she didn't do anything wrong in this case. All
she
knows is that when there's garbage on the floor, she gets yelled at!"
By
Jove, I think he got it. Are You the Boss by Michael Chill
LOS ANGELES, CA
“I always go through the door first!”, or “I always make
sure I eat before my dog does” or “I never let him walk in
front of me” are all
common statements I hear from clients nowadays. The reasoning behind these
comments? “I want to make sure I’m alpha!”
Being “alpha” or, more grammatically correct, being
dominant, is the new catch phrase for this generation of
media watching pet
owners, much as was the word “walkies,” made famous during
the seventies and
early eighties by the British dog trainer, Barbara
Woodhouse. But, unlike
“walkies,” which was a harmless euphemism for the command
“heel,” the idea that
every problem you may be having with your dog can be boiled
down to “lack of
dominance” is not only naïve, but can actually be
destructive.
To begin with, there is a fundamental
misunderstanding of
the word, dominance. The best definition I have heard is “confidence.”
The most
dominant animals I have worked with, both dogs and wolves, were actually
some
of the nicest. They didn’t fight for their dominance, as they didn’t
have to;
they were calm, confident animals, who exuded such self-confidence and
security
in themselves
that they had nothing to prove.
That’s not to say that dominant animals can’t
be aggressive;
of course they can. But many animals who are aggressive are not dominant
at
all. Fear biting, defensive growling, stand-offishness can all be signs
of
underlying apprehension, and to handle these dogs as if they are dominant
would
not only be useless, but could very well increase their problems.
Furthermore, even if
the dog in question were, indeed,
dominant, that doesn’t mean the practice of not letting him walk in
front of
you will in any way address his issues. IF your dog is truly dominant
OVER YOU,
AND one way he expresses that dominance is by walking ahead of you,
then, yes,
discouraging that behavior would make sense. However, many dogs walk in
front
of their owners not as a show of dominance, but merely because they have
never
been trained to heel.As Sigmund
Freud said, “Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar!”
The Nature of Problems by Michael Chill
LOS ANGELES, CA
Most problems
experienced by dog owners can be separated
into three distinct categories.
Training problems
Behavior problems
Temperament problems
Training problems,
such as leash pulling, jumping on people, bolting out the
front door, or not
coming when called, are easily addressed by basic obedience
training.
Behavior problems
deal with how a dog acts, and includes chewing, barking,
digging and house
soiling. There are specific methods to address these issues,
depending on the
dog’s age, breed, etc.
Temperament issues
are more about how your dog reacts emotionally to situations.
Aggression, fear,
and anxiety are all temperament issues some owners face with their pets.
Not all problems fit into neat and tidy
categories, however,
and it takes a competent trainer to assess each dog individually.
Although
jumping is, indeed, a training problem most of the time, an underlying
temperament issue could be motivating it. A boisterous 9 month old
Labrador who
jumps IS a training problem, and a good squirt with a water bottle or a
firm
shake of a penny can, followed by a sit command, would certainly do the
trick.
However, if the jumping is being done by a shy sheltie pup, that would
be a
symptom of an underlying lack of confidence, and to correct him with a
water
bottle or rattle can would be adding insult to injury.
Chewing is typically a behavior problem, often
due to the
age of the dog, boredom, etc. However, if the dog takes the chew item
under the
bed, then growls when his owner tries to take the item away, that type
of
behavior (resource guarding) is a much more serious dominance
(temperament)
issue than teething or chewing.
The source of the problem must also be considered
when
attempting to handle them. Problems can be learned (environmental) or
innate
(genetic). Take leash aggression, for example, and three different dogs,
all
acting similarly aggressive while on leash. One dog may have been
isolated and
is acting out of a lack of socialization. The second dog may be
over-stimulated
or frustrated on leash, due to excessive off-leash play at a dog park.
And the
third may be of a breed that is simply not dog social, despite the best
efforts
to socialize him early.
The first two examples would be learned behavior
or
environment, one being lack of socializing, the other being the wrong
type of
socializing. Each of these should be addressed quite differently to see
any
improvement. The third situation would be more of managing the problem,
rather
than trying to change the basic nature of the breed.
When choosing a
trainer, make sure he or she has the
experience to help you with your particular dog and the specific
problems you
are having. Almost any competent trainer can help with most simple
problems,
but it takes knowledge and experience to assess whether the problems you
are
having are, indeed, simple problems or if they have a much deeper
underlying
cause.
How to Choose the Dog Breed that is Right for You by Michael Chill
One of the most
common complaints among dog trainers is that many clients choose breeds of dogs
whose innate behavior and temperament are totally inappropriate for their
lifestyles.In fact, many people
don’t even consider behavior or temperament when choosing dogs at all.“He has such beautiful blue eyes,” or
“He looked just like a bear in the pet store window,” or even, “The one on that
TV is show just so cute!” are typical of some of the many reasons people offer
when asked why they chose their dogs.
People are
under the impression that any dog, regardless of breed, can be trained to fit
any circumstance or situation, and they discount the fact that breeds carry
with them myriad traits and behavioral tendencies that cannot be “trained out
of them.”Even the late Barbara
Woodhouse, in the epilogue of “Dog Training My Way” states that, when asked
which breed someone should choose, she advises “choose whatever dog you fancy,
for it will be the one you fancy that is the easiest for you to train.”She couldn’t have been more wrong.
When was the
last time someone saw a seeing eye Chow?Or a police K-9 force of Golden retrievers?Or a Malamute herding sheep?The answer is never, of course.And that’s not because trainers don’t choose to train these
particular dogs for those jobs.It
is the very real fact that these breeds cannot do those jobs!Genetically, these dogs have behavioral
and temperament traits that make them unable to respond to certain types of
training, no matter how hard someone tries.And, yes, there are the wonderful exceptions to every rule,
but as much as we can predict the size, shape and coat of a Chow, we can also
predict that practically none would be able to meet the requirements of a
seeing eye dog.
Many breed
characteristics may actually be assets when one considers the original purpose
of the breed.The indefatigable
energy of a Labrador, the protectiveness of a Doberman pinscher, even the
nipping of a Border collie are really talents that have been selectively bred
for generations, but can cause frustration for many of these dogs’ owners.Other traits, such as the submissive
urinating of Cocker spaniels or the excessive shyness of Shetland sheepdogs are
obviously not actively encourage, but nonetheless, come with the contract, so
to speak.So, doing research about
a particular breed has always been the rallying cry of trainers and
behaviorists, hoping that clients could, therefore, avoid certain problems.
However, there
are problems with that well intentioned, but inadequate suggestion.
Very simply,
the books describing the various breeds are written by breeders and other
enthusiasts who rarely write bluntly of a breeds’ shortcomings.And, even when they do, the statements
are couched in euphemisms, much like reading the promotional material of a
particular car.Only those who can
read between the lines of car magazines understand that the term “high
performance” really means 11 miles to the gallon of gas; with dogs, it is much
the same.
Take the phrase
“loves exercise” or the slightly more honest “needs exercise.”That statement would be much more
effective if there was an accompanying photograph of the destruction done to
the home of the owner of a bored and under-exercised Weimaraner, for
example.Or the term, “independent;”
in “dogspeak” that simply means that he will not come when called.
This isn’t
meant to stereotype all dogs into rigid categories and to imply that nothing
can be done to train dogs or alter their behaviors.Being informed and prepared, however, will certainly help in
avoiding the pitfalls, or at the very least offer some consolation.Explaining to a Bichon owner that they
should expect housebreaking mistakes until 6 to 8 months of age is certainly not
welcome news, but at least makes them aware that this is typical and that there
may be nothing wrong with either what they are doing or their dogs.Furthermore, a young couple would be
well advised to avoid certain breeds known to be problems around children,
should they plan on having kids in the future.
So, where is
the best source of information when considering adopting a specific breed of
dog?Purebred rescuers, lists of
whom may be found on the web, through the AKC, and at many animal shelters.Many of these rescuers also show and
breed dogs as well, and possess an incredible amount of knowledge of their
breeds of choice; there is no one more knowledgeable, more objective, or more
dedicated to these dogs than a rescue person.There is also no one more willing to educate and discourage
someone from adopting a dog than they are; there is no reason to place a dog in
a home, knowing that that same dog will be returned due to
incompatibilities with the needs of the home.
Contact Michael Chill
Animal Services
310-559-5900
The Name Game by Ann Masters
LOS ANGELES -
This
is a hard one to remember because, in our day-to-day “human”
interactions, we often used each other’s names—paired with a variety
of, let’s just call them, “inflections”—to communicate our feelings.
I’m sure we’re all familiar with the stomach-tightening feeling that
accompanies hearing one’s name called at top volume from across the
house by a partner or parent. Are you ever excited to respond to that?
(The assumed response, by the way, is “No.”)
Now apply that same concept to your dog. If
you use her name in conjunction with corrections, reprimands, warnings
or punishment, she will soon lose the desire to
respond to it. So,
whenever you can, make sure you’re using your pooch’s name positively.
That way your dog will feel eager to respond to her name because, when
you use it to get her attention or call her to you, good things happen.
You Don’t Have to Yell
by Ann Masters
LOS ANGELES - When it comes to issuing commands, it's the tone not the volume of your voice that matters.
You want to sound calm, assertive, authoritative and confident. A harsh, loud command can confuse your dog or, if your pooch is particularly sensitive, may even shut him or her down.
Take the time to notice what your dog responds to positively and, even more important, what he or she responds to negatively. Many owners make the mistake of assuming their dog is being obstinate or willful when ignoring a command. The dog may, in fact, be confused, stressed, tired or scared. If you're having a problem teaching a new command or getting your dog to comply with familiar commands while training, switch gears. Work on a command he or she knows well (like "Sit" or "Down") and, once you both succeed, end the lesson there.
Just Say It Once
by Ann Masters
If there's one phrase I find myself (ironically enough) repeating several times during my training sessions with clients, it's "Just say it once."
When you tell your dog to "Sit," he or she should sit. If your pooch doesn't sit, then gently guide the dog into a sitting position and then praise or reward the sit. Just say it once.
When you say a command more than once-this is the most common one-Sit, sit, sit, sit, sit, sit, sit, sit-you're teaching your dog to blow you off and tune you out. After all, you didn't mean it the first time, right? Just say it once. Why should the dog hang out and listen to you do a lack-luster impression of a broken record?
Just say it once. Just say it once. Just say it once.
You Get What You Give
by Ann Masters
LOS ANGELES - When it comes training your dog, you get what you give. If you work hard, so will your dog. If you slack off, Bongo will too.
That's why it's so important to set realistic guidelines for yourself and your
pooch. Decide just how perfect you'd like Bongo's behavior to be and, more importantly, what training is most essential to you. For example, if you decide you want Bongo to heel like a champion on the leash, then give that training a champion effort. Maintain it just as mindfully.
If you ever want to assess the effectiveness of your training, simply look at the appropriateness of your dog's behavior. If your pooch tends to do what he wants, when he wants, then chances are - when it comes to your training - you do, too.
Work it, Baby
by Ann Masters
LOS ANGELES – Whether you have a wiggly Chihuahua or a rough-n-tumble mutt, your dog needs to work. Notice I used the word needs. Working is as much a part of Puddles' genetic makeup as running, playing, sleeping or eating. Unfortunately, along with domestication, we've introduced our dogs to joblessness.
The result?
They're bored. And a bored dog is a destructive dog. Without a job to do, Puddles has a limited list of ways to pass the time. Unfortunately, chewing, scratching and digging typically top that list.
The solution?
Help keep Puddles entertained by making him earn everything. Practice your commands regularly to reinforce his training. Walk him daily and exercise him with interactive games like fetch. Make your dog sit before receiving affection, a treat or a toy. And, finally, when you're not at home, provide interactive toys like the Buster Cube, puzzle toys and stuffable chews.
You’re Always Training Your Dog
By Ann Masters
LOS ANGELES – When you give your dog attention - affection, treats or any kind of reward - you are reinforcing the behavior that is happening at that very moment. For example, if you come home and Sir Doggy Von Doggle Pants jumps all over you while excitedly whining and you respond by petting him enthusiastically (most likely while coo-cooing the words, "Hey, Boy! Didya miss me? Who's the big boy that I love? WHO'S THE BIG BOY THAT I LOVE!?"), you're reinforcing that behavior.
Congratulations. That's how your dog will greet you every time you come home. On the other more appealing hand, if you wait until your dog is calm before you greet him, then that's the way he'll learn to welcome you home. See how it works? Ignore or correct the behaviors you don't like and - this is the most important part - notice and reward the behaviors you do like.
ANN MASTERS
Ann Masters is a professional dog trainer in the Los Angeles Area. Contact Ann for information on her training methods and services.